Saturday, July 15, 2017

There's Only One Bradley Lowery

The athlete visits sick kid trope is nearly as old as modern sports. Babe Ruth legendarily hit a trio of homers in Game 4 of the 1926 World Series after visiting 11 year-old Johnny Sylvester in the hospital and promising a round tripper. So legendarily, in fact, that Sylvester has his own Wikipedia entry.

Sometimes, probably most times, the athletes in question provide a momentary bright ray for a stricken child before they return to their lives. More rarely, kids and their heroes develop real relationships, a testament to a shared humanity that transcends age and class and circumstance. Recall, for instance, Michigan State basketball player Adreian Payne and his friendship with little Lacey Holsworth, who lost her life to cancer in 2014 at the age of 8.

In the case of English soccer player Jermain Defoe, there's only one Bradley Lowery.

Defoe is the 7th-leading scorer in English Premier League history, tallying 158 goals in 16 seasons in England's top tier, with another 20 in 57 appearances for the English national team. At 34, he's nearing the finish line of his decorated career, but he still managed to bang in 15 goals for Sunderland last season. His efforts weren't enough to keep the Black Cats from relegation, so he moved on after three seasons in Tyne and Wear, signing with Bournemouth for the 2017-18 season.

Lowery was five years old when he met Defoe earlier this year. The youngster, a huge Sunderland fan, had been battling neuroblastoma, a cancer of the brain, since 2013, and been invited to be a mascot for his favorite club. Defoe and Lowery struck up an instant and fast friendship.

"As soon as he saw me, he ran over to me and jumped on my lap," said Defoe, recalling his first meeting with Lowery in February. "I think probably from that moment, it was sort of overwhelming, because I was like 'oh wow.' And that sort of love he gave me from day one was just like, that instant moment, was sort of like when we bonded. It was just a great feeling."

The two famously appeared together at Sunderland matches, in addition to English national team ties. In March, Lowery accompanied Defoe as the latter walked onto the pitch for an England/Lithuania World Cup qualifier.

Said Defoe, "All the lads know the bond between me and Bradley and how important it is for him to be happy and enjoy every moment ... I mean, these moments will live with me for the rest of my life. I will never forget all the times he's walked out with me."

Defoe scored in that match, a 2-0 England victory.

Last week, at the age of six, Bradley Lowery succumbed to the cancer that racked his little body.

In the days before Lowery's passing, Defoe spent time with the boy and his family. He was asked about his relationship at his introductory press conference in Bournemouth:



Defoe joined a number of Premier League players and officials at Lowery's funeral in Sunderland. His emotions matched those of the thousands of people who lined the route from the church, thousands who didn't know Bradley Lowery personally, but who were touched by his story, his pure joy in the real friendship of a man from an entirely different background who played a game for a team he loved.


There's only one Bradley Lowery. But there's only one Jermain Defoe, too.

17 comments:

Marls said...

Venus' coach is wearing a Jacksonville Jaguars pullover. She's fucked.

Whitney said...

Yep, this is a good story and that video made me cry.

zman said...

Tomorrow is zwedding anniversary. I did not know that.

Mark said...

At least you found that out today, Z.

My wife and kids are out of town. Left this morning and returning late afternoon tomorrow. My only responsibilities are to smoke wings tomorrow and not burn the house down. This is too much freedom for one man.

Mark said...

I'm at my local brewpub for lunch and the woman sitting next to me at the bar is drinking Mich Ultras. Why come here then? You can drink shitty, flavorless beers anywhere.

Whitney said...

Touché, Mark. Unless her man demanded she join him.

Whitney said...

GD channel on SiriusXM airing a show from 1988 I attended. Made me smile and my daughter laugh.

TR said...

Wildwood keeps getting grosser. Got caught in a monsoon on their massive beach, which forced cancellation of all afternoon games. I'm pretty sure there's a convention here for tattooed, pierced smokers.

Whitney said...

Got a problem with tattoos, TR?

Mark said...

Tattoos are trashy, IMO.

TR said...

So there is really a brand of brats named "Johnsonville?" Que bueno.

rob said...

federer is toying with cilic

Whitney said...

Impressive

Whitney said...

And Johnsonville brats have been around for ages. I remember cooked some up during summer school in the Burg. Come on, TR. are you drinking again?

zman said...

Winter is coming!

Mark said...

I'm way more excited than I should be for GOT. I've watched half of season 6 this afternoon.

zman said...

Valor marlstootis!